1. Choose the Right Recipe from Date Night Tips for Men Who Can't Cook Slideshow

Date Night Tips for Men Who Can't Cook Slideshow

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1. Choose the Right Recipe

The highest priority is meal planning. Ideally, try out the recipe first to get a handle on it. If time is short, ask a trusted friend to help find something — the range here is more complicated than penne with marinara, but less tricky than pad thai. Consider something that looks impressive but is actually quite easy, like a roast chicken with vegetables.

 

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2. Manage Expectations

You're not a great chef, so don't try to fake it when you tell your date you want to cook for her. Mention that you're no Batali but that you enjoy improving each time you do cook. She'll appreciate the effort, and you'll feel a sudden drop in pressure.

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3. Know Who You're Cooking For

Find out about any allergies/eating restrictions ahead of time. It would be great to defy our gender stereotype of being inconsiderate.

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4. Work Ahead

Do any complicated prep work a half-hour before she's supposed to arrive (and really, do as much as you can).

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5. Plan the Tunes

Set the playlist early and have it playing when she gets there. The less you have to think about, the better.

 

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6. Set Out Pre-Meal Snacks

Have snacks out for both of you — ex: olives, cheeses, baguette — so there's no rush to eat. 

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7. Involve Your Date

Don't insist on doing everything yourself. When she offers to help (which she will), don't make her sit there twiddling her thumbs while you're pacing around stress-sweating. Have something in mind she can help with, because beyond being helpful, it's also significantly more fun to partake together than for the other person to just watch.

 

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8. Cook to Her Taste

Use "taste tests" to mask your utter uncertainty. If you start to lose confidence once you're in the trenches, ask her to taste the sauce or risotto as a means of soliciting help without raising suspicion. If the taste is off-course, she'll likely have a suggestion for how to correct it — and this is much better than waiting until everything's finished.

 

 

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9. Memorize Cooking Times

This may seem like overkill, but the easiest mistake a non-chef can make when trying to have a conversation is losing track of cooking times. Run through the order of things beforehand, and if need be, write it down.

 

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10. If You Screw Up

If the meal does get messed up irreparably, consider two pieces of advice: First, accepting failure with grace is a chance to show character, and second, if you're in good supply of wine (which you should be), the date is by no means over. Make a few self-deprecating jokes, put in a call to the nearest takeout place, and crack open another bottle.  

 

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