When I was in elementary school, we lived in a pretty run-of-the-mill suburban Americana neighborhood. Medium-sized homes lined up with little room in between. Children playing on front lawns and running between houses. Riding bikes to the neighborhood pool a few blocks away. It had a Leave It to Beaver meets the Brady Bunch sort of vibe and everyone was Caucasian. Not purposefully, just how it worked out.
Despite this, it was a college town, so there certainly were varied ethnic families, just not on my street. One day our next door neighbors moved. I really don’t remember them and suspect they moved out shortly after we moved in, when I was in third grade.
An Indian couple, the Boses, moved in. I remember my first sighting of Mrs. Bose in her sari; she was the most exotic woman I’d ever seen! For those who aren’t familiar with saris, they are a style of Eastern Indian dress made up of yards and yards of beautiful fabric that is wrapped around the waist into a floor-length skirt, and then over the shoulder covering a midriff blouse. Always striking in appearance, even if worn when weeding the garden, as Mrs. Bose was often seen doing.
Ironically, our next door neighbors on the other side had the last name ‘Bash’. No kidding. What is the likelihood of the Bashes and the Dashes living next to each other? The mother was single and raising two girls younger than I.
One day I noticed the girls parading down the street in saris of their own. Mrs. Bash (this predated the Ms. era) had paid Mrs. Bose to make saris for her girls. I was so envious, admiring their jewel tone outfits with gold threading in the most saturated shades of color imaginable.
One day I went to visit Mrs. Bose, and when she opened the door I smelled the most intoxicating aroma coming from her kitchen. She invited me to come in as she finished making dinner for Mr. Bose. She was making what I know now was chicken tikka masala.
She invited me to try a little, and I couldn’t resist. To this day I remember the deep crimson and saffron coloring of the chicken and sauce, and the sheen from the oil in the cooking pan. The sultry flavors were a far cry from our favorite hot dog and boxed mac and cheese mainstay, and I wanted to learn all about Indian food.
Mrs. Bose would invite me in often when she was cooking and let me try everything. One time the Boses invited our family to accompany them to a large gathering of local Indian families. I did not know there were so many in our town, but more importantly, it was a potluck, and I did not realize how many delicious recipes there were to try.
After becoming gluten-free, I really withdrew from eating out until I got my sea legs on about what types of cuisine were ‘safe’ or not. Fortunately for me, Indian food is largely naturally gluten-free. Like me, my gluten-free kids love it too. Though I tend to go out to eat it, there are a few dishes I like to make at home when I have the time.
Paneer tikka masala is one of them. Paneer is a type of cheese that is very easy to make at home. It is marinated in the iconic flavors of other tikka masala dishes, grilled or pan-fried, then served in a curry-like gravy.
I feel like a cultural interloper in sharing a recipe for paneer tikka masala. I’m in no means an expert, and as with many ethnic dishes, paneer tikka masala has variations based on each cook, or whether it is being prepared restaurant-style (with cut vegetables) or not.
Regardless, I love this dish and each time I make it I am back in Mrs. Bose’s kitchen, admiring her crimson sari and kind brown eyes behind her black-framed glasses as she ladled a taste of what she was making for me to try.
Alright, now I need to confess something. Generally, when I come upon a recipe with a long list of ingredients, I hightail it. I automatically think ‘it’s going to take FORever to make’, or ‘I don’t have that kind of time’ - especially if it’s a new-to-me recipe!
Before you react similarly, I want to talk you off the ledge. Yes, there are many ingredients, but most are seasonings and spices, so they take mere minutes to combine. I’ve also incorporated some shortcuts!
Have you noticed the prepared herb pastes in tubes in the produce section of the grocery store? My fridge is full of every kind. It saves peeling and dicing garlic, ginger, or in this case, using a mortar and pestle to turn herbs into a paste.
The flavor is the same but the time and effort is far less. Additionally, this recipe uses a short cut of starting with pureed tomatoes rather than making the sauce and pureeing it. Making the paneer really is simple too. The bulk of the time is with the paneer compressing in the fridge. Store-purchased paneer may also be substituted.
Method adapted from The Food Network.
For the Marinade:
For the Gravy:
Prepare the Marinade:
Preparing the Paneer and Sauce: